Thank you Jhanon, Michel, Jhanananda and Roamer for the contributions to this discussion, it is all very interesting.
A rigorous, self-aware contemplative life is ideal, but as roamer said, some people, like me, can benefit from psychedlic trips. I do not think I would have gained the conviction to really hunker down on meditating and searching for jhana if I hadn't experienced jhana-like things in psychedlia. It helped me see that there were spiritual phenomena that I wasn't really aware of. It was a wake-up call.
Though I have not had much experience with psychedelics (nor do I plan to), I agree here that some of the things I experienced were a wake-up call to drop the drugs and become more dedicated and disciplined in my search. I don't think it was necessary for me to have taken them to experience what I do now, but it gave me a glimpse that there was more available to us than I had previously concluded. Even so, some of my friends continue to argue with me saying that the drugs are what is necessary to experience bliss and see truth, but I still feel that it will only be open to them as long as they are on the drug, then what? So I see why you are against promoting them Jhanananda as many people are already heavily invested in them. I assume my friends think I am making things up about absorption because they do not experience much in meditation. But I try to inform them of your website and tell them its only a matter of time if they try earnestly. Though I am not trying to teach anyone, and I barely feel worthy enough to give even small advice, I hate watching people spin in circles if they are really done with it, so I try to just point them here.
This does make me curious, would I be wrong in trying to help those near me who wish to try finding meditative absorption? I ask because I don't feel qualified to guide them far (only up to some charisms), and I would be unable to help them during a spiritual crisis or dark night, but some seem really desperate to find answers(or at least some relief) and I hate to just leave them to it on their own because I suffered almost incessantly when I felt like that. But I obviously don't want to cause more harm than good. Would it be wiser to just continue quietly until I have better experience? Again my aim is not to be a teacher, just to help.